Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Olivia is 1!!!

Olivia is 1 and it's interesting how close the milestones for both Robin and Olivia have been in terms of actions. On April 20, Olivia took 6 steps, and Robin took her first steps at 11 and a half months too. Olivia has learned the ASL sign for "drink" and "more." Her "drink" is a bit of a flail, but we get the point. And her "more" is exactly like Robin's was, just pointing her two index fingers together.

Throughout the day, I keep a log of interesting things that the kids do as notes on my iPod. Very handy, especially for someone with a sporadic memory like mine. The problem is that ever since Olivia has become mobile, I'm noticing that those notes get old quick. I wrote "Olivia can turn the music on her exersaucer all by herself"... which we have now taken down because she is too big.

One comment that is still unfortunately timely is the "Zombie booger face". That's all I had to write in my notes to remember exactly what I meant. For the last 2 MONTHS Olivia has had one cold after another. It's the price we pay for going out a lot I guess. I suppose if I stuck everything in my mouth, I'd get sick a lot too. As to the above mentioned zombie booger face. When she wakes up, there it is. It's much better now. And I'm sure she'll be glad to read this some day in the future and see that on her first birthday, Daddy wrote about her mucous prone face.

We are (knock on wood) very lucky with our little Olivia. She's healthy, happy, dances like a maniac, sleeps though the night and mows down food like she's a reincarnated trucker. I suppose she might get embarrassed by that comment too. We love you Olivia.



Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Stay at Home Dad

About a month ago, I made the decision to quit my job to become a stay at home Dad. In some ways it wasn't really a big change, since I have already been at home with the kids on parental leave since the summer. But now that I've actually quit my job, there's a permanent ring to "Stay at Home Dad". I'm now a dad with a capital D.

There's lots of reasons why Jen and I decided this was best. Heck, I even made a pros and cons sheet (one of those ones you make in high school and think will be too corny to actually use in real life). The main reason is that we think it will be best for our family. When I was back at work when Robin turned one, we had her in a home daycare two days a week with my Mom the other days and it was fine. We discussed the idea of me staying at home for just Robin, but I wasn't into the idea at the time. I liked my job and went through lots of school to get there.

But then Olivia came, and it was time to think things through again. This time, the stay at home vote won. As my pros outweighed the cons, the decision was made. Well, it wasn't really that analytical. In the end, it was really that both Jen and I thought this would be best for our family; less stress, good connection with the kids, and it just felt like the right thing for us.

Now I don't have anything against daycare, and as I mentioned Robin had a great one. I'm sure there are less good ones out there too, but this wasn't about keeping the kids out of daycare. Although, I do hope this helps form a good connection between the kids and their Dad.

So far, it's going pretty damn good.